Queer Collective Podcast

Stone butch lesbians. Pillow princesses. An erotic dynamic that fits like a deviant little puzzle and has been wildly misunderstood ever since. Syd and Addy give us all the details from their own personal experiences, tackle myths and misconceptions, and get radically honest about desire, boundaries, and sexual alignment.

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00:00 intro

00:49 what's a stone top?

07:41 what's a pillow princess?

13:33 can straight girls be a pillow princess?

20:59 myths and misconceptions

25:33 when it's used as an insult

30:35 are they asexual?

34:40 exploring outside the dynamic

42:34 melt the stone?

49:04 finding a partner

51:13 stone butch history

1:01:05 stone butch blues

1:08:22 pillow princess history

1:10:41 all about dating

1:18:31 is it viewed as negative?

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We’re cracking open the secret, censored, and wildly creative history of lesbian sex. We’re digging through ancient poems, forbidden medical texts, barroom gossip, queer zines, and the techniques they definitely didn’t teach in sex ed. Tracing sapphic desire from Sappho’s bedroom to modern queer culture and exposing just how inventive lesbians have always been.

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00:00 intro

01:05 Why is lesbian research scarce?

06:25 do men have higher libido

21:05 ancient greece lesbians

27:24 ancient india lesbians

29:46 medieval lesbos

37:36 is using a dildo phallocentric?

41:21 sexy reddit strap stories

45:42 the arabs had the right idea

48:58 the "itch"

54:04 early modern lesbos

1:02:03 lesbian nuns

1:09:41 modern lesbians

1:12:32 birth of the leather dyke

1:20:49 bdsm kinky lesbians

1:23:11 prison dykes

1:29:15 crafty prison pleasure toys

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Every corner of queer TikTok is on fire. Hot takes, call-out wars, and “LGB without the T” chaos, and suddenly the biggest culture war isn’t left vs. right, it’s inside our own community. We’re diving into the history of queer infighting, from Stonewall splits to homonormativity, moral panics, tender-queer discourse, and why assimilation vs. liberation is the eternal gay cage match.

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00:00 Intro

00:52 What is causing the divide?

07:19 Are we taking it too far?

11:50 The moral panic

16:51 Am I the problem?

23:31 The worst it's ever been

31:23 Save the children

41:44 Assimilation vs abolition

50:23 Which strategy will win?

57:38 This time is different

1:03:53 How tf do we move forward

1:13:14 What can I do today?

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You’re bi (or gay), and honestly? You’ve got no idea what to do with your hands. We got you. Sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg join us for a crash course in gay sex 101. From flirting with men and building confidence to actually being good in bed. We’re talking imposter syndrome, gay panic, and the do’s and don’ts of bottoming… all with a wink, a giggle, and a lube bottle. Think of it as your guide to queer pleasure, power, and sweaty first kisses.

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00:00 Intro

01:11 First time with a man

10:42 Realizing you like men

16:07 Imposter syndrome for bi men

21:59 How do Gay men feel about bi men?

25:46 Will he leave you for a woman?

30:25 Gay vs straight dating

37:36 Consent in gay men spaces

43:06 You're getting more attention now

47:47 How to hit on a guy

56:24 Hard skills

1:00:08 Bottoming

1:07:40 What is side?

1:12:29 How about group sex?

1:15:00 Giving great BJ's

1:18:26 What if it's too big?

1:21:36 First time prep

1:25:41 Sexy smut

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Pansexuality: it’s not just bisexuality with extra glitter. We’re tracing its wild origins from the BDSM underground to the free love 70s to the nonbinary explosion of the 2010s, because this label has range. We’re unpacking the bi vs. pan debate, the pan pride flag’s secret meanings, and why pansexuality has always been the sexy rebel of the LGBTQ+ alphabet.

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00:00 Intro

01:34 Bi or pan?

10:26 Pan is the umbrella

14:55 What is a lesbian?

19:55 What does attraction look like for pansexuals?

24:02 History of pansexuality

31:38 Early examples of pansexuality

35:45 The kinky history

39:41 The evolution of pan

48:55 Sexuality is not fluid?

56:08 Pan challenges

01:05:37 Is pansexuality inherently political?

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