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This episode is running experiments, listener! Carson Olshansky (they/them) is a fantastic stand-up comedian, writer, and creator that you’ve seen blowing up your social media feeds, but today they’re in the apartment to fingerblast you so accurately you’ll scream “Eureka!” We discuss a/b testing the best finger for bangin’, finding sexual compatibility, dating mascs with a complicated identity, and having LEGITIMATE trauma from Jimmy Buffet’s “Margaritaville.” Ashley gets boob-honked HARD. Lizzy’s anniversary is nearly ruined. 

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This episode is breaking new ground, listener! Vico Ortiz (HBO Max, Adventure Time) is an enchanting Puerto Rican drag king, actor, and activist that is pushing boundaries in the media, but today they’re in the apartment to pop our drag king cherry! In addition, all of our usual co-hosts are tied up, away, or sick, so Ashley’s girlfriend Jen Davis fills in as our temporary co-host! We discuss polyamory, relationship anarchy, decolonizing your life, tricking straights into reading queer smut, and being in a queer relationship with Mother Gaia. Ashley gets hit on by a man. Jen ruins a straight girl.  

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This episode is saying all the wrong things, listener! Yvette Segan is a fan-favorite stand up comedian, actor, writer, and podcaster with over 400k followers across all platforms from her hilarious videos. However, today she RETURNS to the apartment because she’s finally in a queer relationship — she's dating a bisexual man! We discuss queerness in straight-passing relationships, being so in love that you’re writing poetry (gay), dating vs. self worth, and making dated assumptions about queers that we will NOT edit out of the pod. Ashley and Jen’s parents finally meet for the first time. Lizzy spreads vicious gay rumors about her uncle.

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Happy Holidays, Bottoms! To celebrate everything you have done for us, enjoy this special highlight reel of some of the best moments from our Patreon bonus series, “You’re Having Gay Sex,” where we read and react to stories submitted by you! In addition, Ashley gives an extra long holiday message, answering some of your gayest questions about the holidays. Gather round your chosen family and get ready for some of YOUR most hilarious moments!

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This episode is risking it all, listener! Brandon Rogers is a massive queer actor, content creator, and comedian that’s had you laughing on everything, from YouTube sketches to shows like “Helluva Boss.” However, today he’s in the apartment to have you GASPING from the situations he has put himself in! We discuss your first time having gay sex getting interrupted by your partner’s family walking in, acting, representation, the depth & beauty of queer characters, and interior design. Ashley almost gets arrested. Lizzy lives in the queer underground.

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