Double Life

• 73. Keeping Friendships Alive in Your 20s: What No One Prepares You For

  We’re talking all about friendships in your 20s — and how no one really prepares you for how much they change. Whether it’s the school friends you haven’t messaged in months, the ones who now live halfway across the world, or the new people you’re trying to connect with while juggling work, marriage, or motherhood — it’s a lot. And no one talks about how emotionally confusing it can be.In this episode, we’re sharing the small things we’re doing to actually keep in touch — like sending memes, making space for voice notes instead of FaceTimes, and learning how to show love in quiet, low-maintenance ways. We also get real about the guilt, the overwhelm, and how sometimes the biggest shift is just being more intentional.If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Are we still even friends?” — this one’s for you.00:00 Introduction0:58 Why friendships in your 20s feel so different2:32 The mental load of keeping up with everyone4:45 What we can learn from how men stay in touch6:55 The guilt of not reaching out — and how we’re handling it8:50 Living life with friends, not just catching them up10:00 Building real connection without being in the same room11:37 Old friends, new seasons — and letting friendships evolve13:28 Social media friendships vs. real-life connection15:00 When your friends become mums, wives, or just really busy17:10 Replacing the “catch up dump” with shared memories18:45 Making space for friendship in a full life20:06 Doing life together vs. updating each other21:39 Being intentional — even when you don’t have the time23:00 Ending the cycle of guilt and showing up in small waysDon't forget to give us a rating and send us your dilemmas at:💌 [email protected]:⁠@farahrajax⁠⁠@devamsha⁠

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• 72. How to know when it's time to leave (changing your mind is OKAY)

  In this episode, we unpack the guilt, shame, and emotional friction that come with changing your mind—especially when it comes to your job, relationships, or life direction. From navigating commitment issues to knowing when you’ve outgrown a space, we reflect on our own experiences with leaving corporate jobs, pivoting careers, and building enough self-belief to take a different path.We explore the pressure to stay put, the generational baggage around quitting, and the deep personal work it takes to trust your own intuition. Whether you’re contemplating a job change, leaving a relationship, or just feeling stuck, this episode will help you reframe what it means to “quit”—and see it instead as a radical act of self-trust.Perfect for high-achieving women who are tired of living on autopilot and ready to choose themselves, even when it feels scary.Keywords: quitting job guilt, changing your mind career, how to know when to leave, corporate to self-employed, outgrowing environments, commitment issues, feminine energy, self-belief, first-born daughters, emotional trauma healing00:00 Introduction01:12 Are we failures for changing our minds?04:48 The guilt of leaving when you’ve invested time08:42 Pressure, people-pleasing, and autonomy12:09 Recognising you’ve outgrown your environment14:27 The fear of becoming your boss17:32 Shrinking yourself to stay in the wrong room19:41 Self-belief and walking away from “safe” spaces23:10 The leap from corporate to self-employed26:30 Why trusting yourself is the foundation of changeDon't forget to give us a rating and send us your dilemmas at:💌 [email protected]:⁠@farahrajax⁠⁠@devamsha⁠

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• 71. Hobbies Might Be Your Greatest Wealth Strategy

  There’s so much pressure these days to have a side hustle. Whether it’s content creation, digital businesses or ‘making the most of your time’, it can feel like just working your 9–5 isn’t enough. But is constantly chasing extra income really the answer?In this week’s episode of Double Life, we explore a different path — one that prioritises joy, purpose and personal growth over monetisation. We chat about the power of hobbies and how they actually shape the kind of mindset that creates long-term financial wellbeing. From learning a language to picking up the piano again, we unpack how doing things just for you can give you more peace, confidence and even better money habits over time.If you're a firstborn daughter battling hyper-independence, trying to shift from survival to softness, or craving a life that’s rich in more ways than one — this one’s for you.00:00 Introduction – The pressure to hustle and why we're questioning it01:54 Why our generation feels the need to do more than just a 9–503:37 Are hobbies a substitute for side hustles?05:20 Making time (and money) for joy – even when hobbies cost06:52 Shifting from survival mode to doing things just because they feel good08:57 Budgeting for hobbies like you would investments10:45 The mindset shift hobbies bring: discipline, patience, purpose13:49 The invisible link between hobbies and long-term wealth15:25 Hobbies as a starting point if you’re still figuring things out17:00 For the multi-passionate girlies – balancing fulfilment and income18:42 Final thoughts – why purpose doesn’t always have to be profitableDon't forget to give us a rating and send us your dilemmas at:💌 [email protected]:⁠@farahrajax⁠⁠@devamsha⁠

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• 70. You'll KEEP falling behind until you understand this

  This episode is a healing reminder for every high-achieving, hyper-independent woman who feels like she’s falling behind. We unpack the shame that comes from comparison, the emotional weight of “not doing enough,” and the invisible hurdles that make your journey harder—but also more meaningful.From dealing with family trauma to unlearning survival mode, we open up about how our early years shaped our timelines and why success doesn’t have to be fast to be worthy. We talk about the quiet grief of late bloomers, the resentment you sometimes feel even after achieving your goals, and the internal battles you fight that no one sees.If you’ve ever looked at someone younger and wondered, “Why not me?”—this episode will validate, reframe, and ground you.Keywords: emotional healing, late bloomer, self-growth, feminine energy, comparison trap, eldest daughter struggles, financial healing, mindset shifts, self-worth, soft life, spiritual self-development, trauma-informed growth00:00 The TikTok quote that sparked this conversation2:20 Why we feel “behind” when we’re actually healing4:00 The invisible weight of growing up in survival mode6:02 Comparing yourself to people with a head start8:12 The regret of learning key lessons later in life10:01 What privilege actually looks like behind the scenes12:40 Why success doesn’t feel the same for everyone14:23 How to stop downplaying your own achievements16:35 Turning comparison into inspiration (without guilt)18:40 Practicing gratitude without bypassing your feelingsDon't forget to give us a rating and send us your dilemmas at:💌 [email protected]:⁠@farahrajax⁠⁠@devamsha⁠

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• 69. What They Don’t Tell You About Assets, Net Worth & Financial Freedom

  In this episode of Double Life, we go deep on what it actually means to build wealth in your 20s and 30s — especially when you’re doing it with intention, strategy, and softness. We break down the myths around saving vs. investing, and get honest about our own financial journeys — from credit card debt to six-figure net worth goals.You’ll hear us unpack how we’ve navigated investing in assets like property, index funds, and even crypto (with some wins and a few losses too). We talk about net worth, feminine energy in finances, and how to use lazy girl investing to fund your rich girl lifestyle — without burnout or constant hustle.If you’re a hyper-independent woman learning how to make your money work harder (not you), or navigating the shift from chaos to clarity in your financial world — this episode will give you the strategy and mindset shift you need to start.00:00 Introduction4:01 What “wealth” really means to us7:00 Is your house actually an asset or a liability?10:56 Why assets should pay for your lifestyle14:24 The power of index funds and lazy investing19:44 Our mistakes in crypto + lessons learned22:55 Investing in trends: how to spot the next big thing26:58 How net worth changed our mindset on wealth30:38 Why investing early is your biggest flex35:40 From negative to positive net worth: our blueprint37:00 Setting real, tangible financial goals (and hitting them)Don't forget to give us a rating and send us your dilemmas at:💌 [email protected]:⁠@farahrajax⁠⁠@devamsha⁠

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