The Thais Gibson Podcast

• When a Dismissive Avoidant Acts Like Your Partner… But Won’t Commit

  Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-07-25&el=podcast They text you every day, spend weekends with you, and act like you’re together, yet freeze or pull back the moment commitment comes up. Sound familiar? In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down why dismissive avoidants often behave like partners without committing, revealing the emotional roadblocks, childhood conditioning, and subconscious fears driving their behavior. You’ll also learn how to recognize the difference between emotional unavailability and genuine potential, plus practical tools to protect your heart, communicate your needs, and decide when to stay—or walk away. You’ll learn: ✅ The four key reasons dismissive avoidants resist commitment—even when they care deeply ✅ Why emotional intimacy feels unsafe due to childhood neglect or unmet needs ✅ How vulnerability and commitment trigger subconscious fear and shame ✅ Why poor conflict-resolution skills cause long-term resentment and withdrawal ✅ How communication gaps make both partners feel misunderstood and criticized ✅ What “Integrated Attachment Theory™” teaches about repairing connection and building trust Video Breakdown (Timestamps): 00:00 – Intro 00:37 – The Four Attachment Styles 01:11 – 1. Emotional Connection Wasn’t Modeled in Childhood 04:17 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Struggle With Vulnerability 05:39 – Integrated Attachment Theory™ Certification 06:33 – 3. Why They Don’t Know How to Resolve Conflict 09:46 – 4. Why They Feel Misunderstood and Criticized 12:10 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #BoundariesMatter #SecureLove #RelationshipHealing They act like your partner but resist commitment. Discover the emotional patterns behind dismissive avoidant behavior and how to respond with clarity and strength. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

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• If An Avoidant Does These 4 Things They’re Discarding You

  Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-06-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants rarely come out and say “I’m done.” Instead, they show it through subtle but powerful patterns, often long before the actual breakup happens. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the four unmistakable signs that an avoidant is emotionally checking out and shares how to protect your self-worth, regulate your nervous system, and set healthy boundaries before it’s too late. Drawing on neuroscience and ancient wisdom, Thais explains how oxytocin drops, cortisol spikes, and emotional disconnection create chaos in relationships—and how to use self-awareness and communication to stop the spiral and regain control. You’ll learn: ✅ The four red flags that signal a dismissive avoidant is preparing to leave ✅ How “flaw finding” and subtle criticism act as deactivation strategies ✅ Why they replace intimacy with creature comforts like work or hobbies ✅ The neuroscience of emotional withdrawal and bonding disruption ✅ How to use pattern interruption and self-regulation to stop self-blame ✅ The boundaries and conversations that separate healing from heartbreak Video Breakdown (Timestamps): 00:00 – Intro 00:53 – 1. If You See Them Shutting Down Emotionally 01:52 – 2. If There Are Sudden Devaluing Behaviors or Comments 04:59 – Attachment Styles & Intimacy Promo 05:31 – 3. Replacing Intimacy with Creature Comforts 06:51 – The Neuroscience Behind Relational Distress 09:16 – Pattern Interrupt 11:29 – Setting Clear Boundaries 13:44 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Consideration 15:30 – 4. When They Stop Communicating 16:41 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentHealing #ThaisGibson #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #AttachmentStyles #BoundariesMatter #BreakupRecovery #SecureLove When an avoidant starts to pull away, it’s not random, it’s patterned. Learn to spot the signs early and protect your peace before it’s too late. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

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• The Shocking Thing the Fearful Avoidant Struggles With Most!

  Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-05-25&el=podcast Many Fearful Avoidants see themselves as fiercely independent—until real feelings and vulnerability take hold. Suddenly, emotional dependency sneaks in, making it feel like you lose yourself in the relationship. If this resonates, you’re not alone—and there is a way to break free from the push-pull cycles. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals the hidden signs of emotional dependency for Fearful Avoidants, the neuroscience and childhood roots behind it, and the exact steps you can take to heal so you can love deeply without losing yourself. You’ll learn: ✅ The 3 key signs of emotional dependency in Fearful Avoidant relationships ✅ How attachment trauma in childhood wires the brain for dependency cycles ✅ Why independence flips into preoccupation when real feelings develop ✅ How neuroscience explains the highs, lows, and nervous system disruption the Fearful Avoidant's experience ✅ 3 practical steps to heal, regulate, and create secure interdependent relationships Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  01:14 – Have You Lost Yourself in a Relationship Before?  01:41 – 1. When Feelings Get Real, You Feel You Are Over-identifying With Your Partner 03:29 – 2. Although Difficult to Ask, You Seek Reassurance in a Relationship 05:12 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:48 – 3. You Sometimes Feel Emotional Highs and Lows 07:09 – The Neuroscience Behind the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style 10:34 – Step 1: Learn to Meet Your Own Needs 11:44 – Step 2: Have a Relationship With Yourself Outside of Your Romantic Relationship  12:53 – Step 3: Rewire Old Triggers From Past Relationships 13:38 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Love 14:49 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalDependency #AttachmentTheory #Relationships #Healing Fearful Avoidants often feel independent until deep feelings trigger hidden emotional dependency. This episode explains why it happens and how you can heal to keep your sense of self while building healthy, lasting relationships.

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• Major Signs the Dismissive Avoidant Will Never Come Back

  Achieve Your Goals FAST With the “Needs” Course. Free for Life With a 7-Day Trial https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-09-27-25&el=podcast    Are you stuck in a painful cycle, wondering if your Dismissive Avoidant partner will ever come back? It’s exhausting to feel like your life is on hold, constantly walking on eggshells and hoping things will change.  In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down the major signs that a Dismissive Avoidant has reached the true point of no return—so you can stop second-guessing yourself and finally get clarity. You’ll learn the psychology, neuroscience, and relationship dynamics behind this attachment style, how to spot when healing is no longer possible, and what steps you can take to protect your peace and reclaim your life.   You’ll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants often leave relationships, and when they never come back ✅ The “gray area” dynamic that keeps you stuck and prevents real progress ✅ How conflict-avoidance and emotional suppression create walls over time ✅ The neuroscience of deactivation and why it worsens if left unaddressed ✅ The questions you must ask to know if true healing and reconnection are possible ✅ Three powerful healing steps you can take today if you’re the loved one of a Dismissive Avoidant ✅ How unmet needs and old wounds keep you chasing breadcrumbs—and how to break free   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  00:45 – 1. When the Emotional Disconnection is Reinforced, They No Longer Want to Connect 03:21 – 2. If Dismissive Avoidants Feel Criticized, They Will Pull Away 05:34 – Discover, Embrace, & Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course Promo  06:11 – The Neuroscience Behind Deactivation  08:36 – Being Willing to Do the Work is a Prerequisite for Healing 09:49 – Step 1: If You See This Person Withdrawing Over Time, Prepare Yourself to Heal 10:23 – Step 2: “What Are the Needs That I’m So Scared of Losing?” 11:06 – Step 3:  “What Wounds Are Chaining Me to This Potentially Unhealthy Situation?” 12:05 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Love and Consideration  14:02 – Conclusion   Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1  📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson  💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/    #DismissiveAvoidant #DismissiveAvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopment #HealingJourney #RelationshipAdvice #SelfLove #EmotionalHealing #Boundaries   This episode will help you recognize when it’s time to stop waiting for change and start honoring your own needs so you can step out of painful cycles and create space for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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• If A Fearful Avoidant Does THIS, They're About to Leave Suddenly

  Achieve Your Goals FAST With the “Needs” Course. Free for Life With a 7-Day Trial https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-09-26-25&el=podcast    One of the most painful experiences is when a Fearful Avoidant suddenly walks away without warning. What most people don’t realize is that there is a specific red flag that the relationship is close to ending. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down what that behavior is, why it happens, and how you can respond with clarity and self-respect. You’ll learn the neuroscience of why Fearful Avoidants shut down, how past wounds shape their fear of vulnerability, and what to do if you notice these warning signs in your relationship. Thais also shares a simple framework you can use—whether you’re the Fearful Avoidant or their partner—to bring needs to the surface and stop the cycle of sudden exits.   You’ll learn: ✅ The behavior that signals a Fearful Avoidant is ready to leave ✅ Why unspoken needs and unmet expectations push them toward sudden exits ✅ How childhood chaos wires them to avoid expressing vulnerability ✅ The neuroscience of fear, safety, and why needs feel dangerous to share ✅ Why sudden breakups aren’t about you—but about unresolved conditioning ✅ A practical exercise to rebuild safety and communication ✅ How to know if the relationship can be repaired—or if it’s time to move on   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  00:37 – 1. Fearful Avoidants Struggle to Communicate Their Needs  02:05 – 2. Fearful Avoidants Pressure Themselves to Meet the Needs of Others 04:05 – Discover, Embrace, & Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course Promo  04:53 – The Neuroscience Behind Fear 08:27 – Step 1. Ask Yourself, “How Much Did I Communicate My Needs?” 08:55 – Step 2. “Did I Communicate in a Way That Was Likely to Be Received?” 10:08 – Step 3. Do a Weekly Needs Check-in 11:54 – Conclusion   Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1  📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson  💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/    #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupHealing #EmotionalHealing When a Fearful Avoidant leaves suddenly, it’s usually because unspoken needs and fears have quietly built up until they shut down completely. Learning the red flags and creating space for open, healthy communication, you can protect yourself and build stronger, more secure relationships.💓

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