But What Do I Know?™

Sometimes we lose pieces of ourselves in relationships, while trying to belong, or simply while becoming who we think we're supposed to be.

This week, Chidinma is joined by Nigerian-American attorney and author Kehinde Winful for a conversation inspired by her debut novel, Flooding the River. Through the story of Lolah, a young woman navigating love, identity and a return to Nigeria, they explore what it means to come home, both to a place and to yourself.

They also get into the complicated relationship members of the African diaspora can have with home, who gets to claim an African identity, what our romantic relationships can reveal about who we're becoming, and how easy it can be to lose your own voice while trying to be loved or chosen.

This week’s conversation is one that touches on love, diaspora, identity, home and learning to trust yourself again.

Be well and stay curious!

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Connect with Kehinde Winful: @kenyoureads

Kehinde’s Book: Flooding The River

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello

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What comes after deciding the work you’re doing no longer aligns with what you value?

In the first It’s Your Turn episode, a BWDIK listener shares her decision to leave corporate America and begin building a marketing agency of her own. Host, Chidinma reflects on the difficulty of building something new, why knowing you made the right decision doesn’t necessarily make the climb any easier, and the different versions of freedom and alignment we’re all searching for in the way we work.

Have a thought, experience or things you’re working through that you'd like to share? Leave a voice note using the link below! Please remain anonymous by leaving your name out of the recording and submission title.

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello

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Disappointment is inevitable, but what happens when you get tired of constantly having to adjust, pivot and make a new plan?

In this solo episode, Host Chidinma gets candid about recent disappointments. From moments where it was difficult to show up fully to challenges behind the scenes of the podcast. The episode ends with three reflections helping her move through this current season.

Because you can't insulate yourself from disappointment, but you can cushion it.

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello

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Can we question the beliefs we inherited without rejecting everything we've ever known?

This week, author and spiritual practitioner Juju Bae joins Host Chidinma on to discuss The Book of Juju and what it means to approach faith, ancestry, and spirituality with curiosity rather than certainty.

Together, they explore Juju's journey to Ifá, reconnecting with African spiritual traditions, common misconceptions about Ifá, Hoodoo and Vodou, and why so many people are quietly re-examining the beliefs they inherited.

More than a conversation about religion, this is a conversation about identity, curiosity, and having the permission to ask difficult questions.

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Support The Book Of Juju: https://www.jujubae.com/

IG: @itsjujubae

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Connect with "But What Do I Know?" Podcast:

Podcast Community: ⁠https://www.bwdikpodcast.com/

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IG: @bwdikpodcast

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello

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Can romance really be easy?

This week on the podcast, bestselling romance author Danielle Allen joins host Chidinma to discuss Big Girl Blitz, the final book in the Curve series. Together, they explore what makes a romance story feel believable, why healthy love can be just as convincing as complicated or toxic love, and how Danielle creates the unforgettable characters - Aaliyah, Nina and Jaz - that bookstagram has come to love.

Hopefully, the conversation doesn’t spoil the book for you (if it does, please forgive) but this episode also explores themes of grief, confidence and emotional healing.. OH and some good SMUT so please listen with your headphones and be prepared to blush a few times (lol).

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Connect with Danielle Allen:

Support Big Girl Blitz: https://www.authordanielleallen.com/

IG: @authordanielleallen

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Connect with "But What Do I Know?" Podcast:

Podcast Community: ⁠https://www.bwdikpodcast.com/

Subscribe and watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BWDIKPodcast

IG: @bwdikpodcast

Tiktok: @bwdikpodcast

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello

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