EP 584: Are You Really Securely Attached? Or Just Self-Aware?
You might know all about attachment theory, the terms, the styles, the patterns, but if your relationships haven’t truly changed, you may be stuck in self-awareness instead of secure embodiment. In this episode, I’m giving you some loving tough truth about why awareness alone won’t create transformation, and how to finally step into the identity shift that allows you to become securely attached.Inside the episode, I share:Why intellectualizing your healing can be a sneaky form of control (and how it holds you back).The key practices that help you regulate your nervous system so you can respond, not react, in relationships.How to move from awareness into embodiment, creating the identity shift that allows you to show up as the securely attached version of you.And quick reminder, today is the very last day to grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast for just $7 with code SECURESEPT. If you haven’t gotten it yet, don’t miss out!Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast✨ If you’re ready to stop trying to do this alone and want the proven path to securely attached love, apply today to the Empowered.Secure.Love Relationship Program. This is the step-by-step process to help you embody secure attachment and create the healthy, lasting relationships you deserve.Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 583: Inside the Mind of the Avoidantly Attached Partner (and How They Can Heal)
Avoidant attachment gets such a bad reputation, but the truth is much more nuanced and hopeful. In this highly requested episode, I break down what’s really happening inside the avoidantly attached partner’s mind, why intimacy can feel like danger, and most importantly, how healing is absolutely possible. Whether you identify as an avoidant, you’re anxiously attached, or you just want to better understand relationships, this episode is for you.Inside the episode, I share:Why avoidantly attached partners distance themselves (and why it’s not about not caring).The truth about healing avoidant attachment (and what it really takes).How you can build safety, connection, and secure attachment—even if avoidance has been your default.💌 Last chance! Grab my Secure.Soft.Magnetic private podcast for just $7 with the code SECURESEPTClick Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private PodcastAnd if this episode resonated with you, I want you to know that deep healing is possible. This is the work I do every day inside my 8-week relationship transformation program, Empowered.Secure.Loved. If you’re ready to break old patterns, attract healthy love, and finally feel secure in your relationships, apply today. Spots are limited, and this could be the decision that changes everything.Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 582: How to Use Heartbreak for Personal Growth: Your Step by Step Bounce Back Better Plan
If you’ve ever gone through a breakup, divorce, or separation, you know how heavy heartbreak can feel. Sometimes it lingers way longer than we want it to, and it can feel impossible to “get over it.” I’ve been there too, and in this episode I’m walking you through how to use heartbreak as a powerful opportunity for growth.Inside the episode, I share:✨ How heartbreak can actually become the catalyst for your healing✨ The mindset shifts that allow you to stop making heartbreak mean something about you✨ A simple framework for turning pain into growth and empowermentIf you’re tired of pretending you’re fine and ready to truly move forward, this episode is for you.And if you know you’re ready to go deeper, to finally break those old patterns and create the secure love you deserve, I’d love to invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program.Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 581: Securely Attached Habits - What You Need to Know for Healthy Relationships
Today’s episode is packed with wisdom that will change the way you think about love, connection, and how you show up in your relationships.I’m breaking down the habits of securely attached people so that you can begin embodying them in your own life. Because here’s the truth: secure attachment is not luck, and it’s not something you either have or don’t have. It’s about intentionally healing, rewiring, and building new habits that create lasting love.Inside the episode, I talk about:✨ Radical ownership of your healing journey - why waiting for the “right person” isn’t the answer, and how secure people take full responsibility for how they show up.✨ Emotional regulation over reactivity - how securely attached people slow down, check in with themselves, and respond intentionally (instead of letting emotions run the show).✨ Valuing and prioritizing relationships - why secure people play the long game, invest in reciprocity, and make connection a priority in a world full of “pseudo-connection.”If you’ve ever wondered what secure love really looks like in action, you’ll want to listen closely and maybe even take notes on this one🎧 Special September Offer: Don’t forget to grab my Secure.Soft.Magnetic private podcast for only $7 this month! This 5-part audio series will help you rewire your brain for secure attachment. Use the code SECURESEPT.Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast💌 And if you’re ready to stop repeating old patterns, heal at the root, and finally attract the healthy relationship you deserve, I would love to support you inside the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program. Apply today!Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magne
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EP 580: How Your Relationship with Your Parents Shapes Your Love Life (and How to Redefine it as an Adult)
Your relationship with your parents is the very first blueprint for love and whether you realize it or not, it impacts everything about how you show up in dating and relationships today. In this episode of the Let’s Get Vulnerable Podcast, I’m unpacking how those early dynamics shape you, why they’re so hard to change, and how you can finally heal and redefine the relationship with your parents as an adult.✨ Inside the episode, you’ll learn:Why your bond with your parents becomes the unconscious template for your romantic relationships.The role of your nervous system in keeping old patterns alive—and how to break free.How to move from black-and-white thinking about your parents into acceptance, curiosity, and healing.💫 If you want to go deeper into rewiring your brain for secure attachment, don’t miss my Secure.Soft.Magnetic private podcast. It’s a 5-part audio series designed to help you release past trauma and embody secure love and this month only, you can grab it for just $7 (normally $27) with code SECURESEPT. Get instant access here.If this episode speaks to you, know that this is exactly the kind of deep-rooted transformation we do inside my signature program, Empowered.Secure.Loved. If you’re tired of repeating the same patterns and you’re ready to finally create the healthy, secure love you deserve, I’d love to support you.💌 Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program here.🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
Sobre Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Welcome to the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast where your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships. Podcast episodes will provide you with tangible strategies that you can implement immediately to improve your life and attract the exact relationship you desire. Episodes will feature expert advice from your host and psychologist, Dr. Morgan Anderson, interviews with incredible people offering you their stories and wisdom, and LIVE coaching sessions where you will have an exclusive glimpse into the growth process as it is unfolding. Episodes are recorded in a live format to give you the feel of a live talk show; episodes are non-scripted and unedited. The content of the episodes is bound to make you laugh, cry, improve your relationships and go confidently after your dreams like never before. So what are you waiting for? Let’s Get Vulnerable!
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