The Dad Edge Podcast

• What Rescuing 2,000 Children Taught Me About Being a Dad featuring Clay Butler

  In this episode, I sit down with Clay Butler, CEO of Agape International Missions (AIM), for a powerful conversation on fighting child trafficking and how present, intentional fatherhood is one of the most effective weapons in that fight. With over 2,000 rescues and hundreds of traffickers arrested, Clay's work is nothing short of heroic—but it's his role as a father that has most shaped his mission. We explore what it truly means to lead as a man, not just in high-stakes global work, but in the day-to-day role of being a protector at home. Clay shares how fatherhood has deepened his approach to leadership, the importance of modeling safe masculinity, and why raising strong, loved, and secure children is one of the greatest forms of resistance to evil. This episode will challenge and inspire any man who wants to leave a legacy worth living for. Episode Highlights [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – A staggering global reality: a child is trafficked every 30 seconds [2:24] – Clay's transformation from young volunteer to CEO of AIM [5:13] – Why Clay initially took a three-month volunteer trip… and never left [9:06] – Finding emotional equilibrium in a traumatic field [10:29] – How fatherhood amplified—not hindered—Clay's leadership [12:04] – The power of modeling safe fatherhood for rescued girls [14:21] – Humility, teamwork, and spiritual grounding in life-or-death operations [20:03] – Tactical and emotional ways to protect your family in public [22:15] – Why kids from foster care are the most trafficked in America [28:12] – Real actions men can take to stop trafficking—starting at home [29:02] – Navigating the tension of preserving childhood innocence while teaching safety [34:45] – Avoiding burnout: ruthless prioritization and reverse engineering legacy [38:07] – Clay's evolving legacy: from warrior to father to restorer 5 Key Takeaways 1. Fatherhood is powerful – Being a present, loving father is one of the most effective deterrents to child trafficking, both at home and globally. 2. Rescue is only the beginning – AIM's model goes beyond rescue to include healing, job training, and long-term restoration. 3. The U.S. isn't exempt – Most trafficking victims in the U.S. come from broken foster care systems. Supporting those systems can change lives. 4. You can protect your kids daily – Small actions like staying aware in public, modeling healthy masculinity, and teaching intuitive safety make a big difference. 5. Your legacy starts now – You don't need to lead a global organization to be a hero. Leading at home with purpose and love is enough. Links & Resources Agape International Missions (AIM): https://aimfree.org AIM Apparel – Support rescued girls through ethical apparel: https://aimapparel.com Bark (Parental Control App): https://thedadedge.com/bark Episode Show notes: thedadedge.com/1393 If this episode sparked something in you, share it with a fellow dad, leave a review, and don't forget to follow the podcast. Together, we can protect our families—and generations to come.

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• How to Guide Your Child Through Fear with Confidence & Safety

  In this solo episode, I dig into one of the most crucial parenting challenges—helping our kids face their fears and build real, lasting confidence. From sports pressure to academic stress to the emotional struggles they often keep bottled up, our kids are living in a high-pressure world. And as fathers, it's our job to create a space where they feel safe, heard, and guided—not just fixed. I share a recent emotional conversation with my own son that completely reframed how I approach fear with my kids. You'll hear practical scripts, parenting frameworks, and validation tools that you can immediately use to strengthen your relationship and lead your kids through difficult emotions—while empowering them to lead themselves. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [1:47] – The "scary" reality kids face daily [3:16] – Gratitude for the community + book update [5:03] – Announcing the next live cohort: Overcoming Roommate Syndrome [9:12] – What fear looks like in your child's world [10:17] – Why asking for permission to talk matters [12:14] – My son's moment of vulnerability on the football field [14:00] – Helping kids name fear and remove shame [15:15] – Shifting identity from failure to effort [16:23] – Creating micro-wins to reinforce confidence [17:41] – Reminding your kids they are already brave [18:08] – Why praising effort beats praising results [19:30] – Free resource: "Questions for the Car" [21:54] – Final thoughts and wrap-up 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Validate Before You Advise Asking your child for permission to talk, rather than jumping into correction or pep talks, shows respect and builds trust. Kids don't want quick fixes—they want to feel seen. 2. Name the Fear to Dismantle the Shame Fear loses power when it's named out loud. Helping your child articulate what they're afraid of creates emotional distance from the fear and invites clarity. 3. Reinforce Identity Through Effort, Not Outcome Focus on who your child is becoming through their effort—not whether they win or lose. This reinforces growth and helps them detach from external validation. 4. Small Wins Build Big Confidence Kids don't need giant leaps to feel successful. Celebrating the little wins builds momentum and reinforces the belief that they can handle what life throws at them. 5. Your Voice Becomes Their Inner Voice How you speak to your kids—especially when they're struggling—directly influences how they'll talk to themselves when you're not around. Lead with empathy, patience, and strength. LINKS & RESOURCES: Car Ride Questions for Kids: thedadedge.com/kidquestions Get the Book + Free Courses: https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Episode Show notes: thedadedge.com/1392 If this episode helped you better understand how to guide your child through fear and build real connection, please rate, follow, and share the show. Let's raise brave, grounded, emotionally intelligent kids—together. Live legendary.

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• Real Money & Finance Lessons I Wish I Learned at 19 featuring Ethan Hagner

  In this Dad Edge Podcast episode, I'm joined by my son Ethan for a powerful father-son conversation about money, mistakes, and mindsets. But this episode goes way beyond budgeting tips. It's about the deeper fear, pressure, and responsibility men feel when it comes to providing and preparing the next generation. We explore everything from cost of living fears to smart saving habits, early investing, and the emotional rollercoaster of becoming financially independent. Ethan shares candid reflections about what worries him most as a 19-year-old and the surprising movie that inspired his money mindset. This episode is filled with laughs, lessons, and the kind of intentional parenting that creates legacy. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [1:02] – Why talking to our kids about money matters more than ever [3:49] – Celebrating transformation: The First Form Dad of the Month [15:21] – What scares Ethan most about adulting and financial independence [19:36] – The 20% rule and why most people never start saving [29:23] – Ethan's frugal mindset shift (inspired by a Jim Carrey movie!) [38:58] – Understanding assets vs. liabilities and why real estate matters [46:34] – Passive income, investing in apartments, and building wealth young [49:11] – The challenge to aggressively save while you have no bills [55:12] – New resource: 25 questions to spark deeper conversations in the car 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Start Financial Conversations Early Your kids are already forming money beliefs—talking about finances now sets them up with real tools and confidence. 2. Fear of Failing as a Provider Is Real Ethan opens up about the weight of becoming a provider and why young men need reassurance and education, not shame. 3. Saving While You Have No Bills is a Superpower We talk about how living at home can be a golden window to stack savings, invest early, and get a head start on life. 4. Assets Build Freedom—Liabilities Drain It From real estate to investments, we break down the difference between money that works for you vs. money you spend for status. 5. Legacy is Intentional, Not Accidental These conversations are how we pass down values, strategy, and strength. The way you talk about money sets your family's future. LINKS & RESOURCES 25 Questions to Spark Connection with Your Kids: https://www.thedadedge.com/kidquestions Join the Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance First Form Products: 1stphorm.com/dadedge Dad Edge Podcast Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/1391 If this episode sparked new conversations at your dinner table—or made you rethink your financial game plan—please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Let's raise strong, wise, and prepared men.

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• Reclaiming Fatherhood Energy by Leading Yourself First featuring Joel Staley

  In this Dad Edge Podcast episode, I'm joined by Joel Staley, husband, father, and fasting expert—but the real story here isn't about weight loss. It's about the emotional and relational weight men carry and how mastering the physical body can help men show up more powerfully for their families. We unpack Joel's transformation from feeling "fluffy" and distracted to leading his wife and kids with presence and purpose. Joel doesn't hold back when talking about how his physical condition was limiting his energy, sex drive, self-respect, and ultimately his connection at home. This isn't a gimmicky fitness episode—it's a raw look at what happens when a man decides he's no longer okay with coasting. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Joel's wake-up call and early struggles with self-image [4:18] – Feeling physically present but emotionally absent as a dad [8:20] – Why getting shredded wasn't the real goal [12:03] – How fasting gave him structure, confidence, and clarity [16:55] – Leading your family starts with leading yourself [20:41] – Joel's marriage breakthrough through vulnerability [24:18] – Sex drive, shame, and physical transformation [28:36] – Teaching his kids about delayed gratification and purpose [33:02] – The real impact of watching your dad take care of himself [37:14] – Daily disciplines that keep him grounded and focused [40:57] – Joel's final challenge for every dad listening 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. When You Lead Yourself, You Lead Better at Home Joel discovered that when he took full ownership of his physical health, it cascaded into better decisions, emotional presence, and connection with his family. 2. Your Body is a Spiritual and Emotional Instrument Getting fit wasn't just about looking good—it gave Joel the energy and confidence to show up for his wife and kids like never before. 3. Fasting Is a Discipline That Builds Mental Toughness Joel explains how structured fasting helped him reclaim control and break unhealthy patterns that were sabotaging his time and attention at home. 4. Physical Change Can Spark Relational Breakthroughs As Joel got healthier, his marriage improved—not because of appearance, but because of how he began showing up with integrity and consistency. 5. Your Kids Notice Everything Joel shares how his daughters now see him as someone who takes care of himself and others—and how that's creating a new generational standard. LINKS & RESOURCES 25 Questions to Spark Connection with Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Learn More About Joel's Coaching & Programs: https://shedfatfast.com Follow Joel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joelstaleyfitness Joel's GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/b8fcf7ca3 Join the Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Podcast Episodes: thedadedge.com/1390 If this episode pushed you to confront your own health or leadership gaps, rate, review, follow, and share. Let's live legendary, in every way that matters.

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• Teaching Your Kids Financial Responsibility Without Overcomplicating It

  In this solo episode, I dive deep into one of the most vital life skills we can teach our kids—financial literacy. From Halloween costumes to quarterly financial reviews, I walk you through my real-life journey of raising four boys with a focus on money management, financial responsibility, and the value of earning over entitlement. This isn't about theory—it's about what I've tried, what's worked, and the lessons I've learned the hard way. Whether your kids are 5 or 19, this episode delivers actionable ideas and candid reflections to help you guide your children toward a financially empowered future. If you've ever wondered how to talk to your kids about saving, spending, budgeting, or even compound interest—this is the episode for you. Timeline Summary [0:00] - Introduction [1:27] - Feeling unequipped as a dad when it comes to teaching kids about money [2:22] - Shocking statistics about the state of money management in America [4:04] - A peek into how I started teaching money to my younger kids [6:10] - The Halloween costume system: chores for rewards [8:48] - Teaching the value of delayed gratification through real choices [10:07] - Why even young kids can handle more responsibility than we think [12:01] - Using a simple allowance system to teach saving, giving, and spending [12:47] - Bringing my teens to financial advisor meetings [13:51] - The impact of exposing kids to real-world financial conversations [14:36] - Teaching compound interest and the power of investing early [15:18] - Setting up budgeting tools like EveryDollar for teens [15:57] - My son's dog-walking side hustle—entrepreneurship at 17 [17:02] - Why real-life problem solving is the best financial teacher [18:33] - Encouraging kids to budget their own money and learn from mistakes [19:46] - New free resource: "25 Questions for the Car" to spark connection [21:03] - Final thoughts and heartfelt thanks to the community 5 Key Takeaways 1. Start Early with Financial Lessons Even young kids can begin understanding the basics of money through age-appropriate systems like chores for rewards, visual goal tracking, and simple budgeting methods. It's never too early to introduce financial literacy. 2. Teach Earning Over Entitlement Using real-life goals—like Halloween costumes or name-brand shoes—can help kids grasp the concept of earning. When kids work for what they want, they value it more and learn essential decision-making skills. 3. Make It Real for Teens Bringing your older kids into financial conversations, like advisor meetings or discussions about interest and investing, empowers them to make smart money decisions now and in the future. 4. Use Tools That Promote Independence Programs like EveryDollar are great for helping teens budget and track their spending. This teaches them accountability and gives them a sense of control over their finances. 5. Connection Is the Catalyst for Teaching Use intentional questions and shared activities to create moments of connection. When you're interested in your kids' lives, it opens the door to deeper, more impactful conversations—including those about money. Links & Resources Free Resource: 25 Questions for the Car — https://thedadedge.com/1389 Budgeting Tool: EveryDollar — https://www.everydollar.com/ thedadedge.com/kidquestions If this episode helped you shift your mindset about parenting and money, take a moment to rate, review, and share it with another dad who could benefit. Your support helps us reach more fathers who are ready to lead with intention. Live Legendary.

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