My Dating And Relationship Podcast With Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach

I talked to Ethel Tan about confidence, early red flags, choosing partners with intention, and how our upbringing shapes the way we date. We got into what makes relationships last, why observation matters before commitment, her journey from theater to stand-up, and my own path from stripping to coaching. If you’ve ever questioned how to pick the right person—or how to stay true to yourself while dating—this conversation will help you see things differently.

Two behaviorists, Chantal Heide and CC Rice talk bluntly about power, patriarchy, and why women aren’t waiting for permission. We cover building matriarchal systems now—at home, at work, and in community—through selection, standards, and autonomy. Logic + intuition. Collaboration over competition. Action over approval.

What you’ll get:

How to build your own “infrastructure” (work, money, safety, support)

Selection > persuasion in dating, hiring, and leadership

Spotting “bad agents” that slow teams and movements

Why “be nice, be quiet” is a control script

Practical boundaries that create peaceful homes and focused work

Logic as a practice, not a persona

If this helps, share it with one woman who builds.💖

The patriarchy keeps women small by teaching us to budget, save, and stay quiet—while men are told to buy assets and build wealth. It’s time to flip the script.

In this episode, I talk to Mel Dorman about how women can take back power: owning buildings, practicing horizontal banking, and creating wealth that stays in our communities.

If you’ve ever been told to “just budget better,” this conversation will show you why that advice keeps you stuck—and how to start building assets, freedom, and power on your own terms.

🔥 Burn the patriarchy. Own the building.

What do men need to unlearn to become safe, emotionally available partners—and how does the red pill movement get it so wrong? In this conversation, I sit down with a Alex, therapist who calls himself anti–red pill and uses his TikTok platform to challenge toxic masculinity, outdated dating rules, and the emotional immaturity that keeps men from being good partners.

 

We talk about what men must unlearn to be truly safe for women to choose—and how our work aligns in helping both men and women build functional, respectful relationships.

 

We also unpack topics like “body count,” the influence of friend groups on emotional growth, and why emotional safety—not just status or confidence—makes the biggest difference in love. 💬

 

We talk about:

– What toxic masculinity looks like in dating

– The real meaning behind emotional safety

– Why “body count” shouldn’t define someone’s worth – How male friendships affect growth and accountability

– What both men and women need to stop tolerating

– Why the red pill mindset is emotionally dangerous

She came in convinced that body count matters. "There has to be accountability!" she said, arguing that a high body count is a red flag. She had studies, she had points—but when we really unpacked it, something shifted. By the end of our conversation, she realized that body count mentality is more about insecurity and control than actual compatibility. So… does body count really matter? Or are we just asking the wrong question? Let’s talk about it.