#23 The Feminist Slave: Daphne’s Side of a 24/7 M/s Bond (Part 1 of 2)
What does it mean to be both a feminist and a slave?In this episode, we explore the emotional, psychological, and erotic architecture of 24/7 submission with Daphne, a collared slave of Master Arcane and educator of The Crow Academy for over 10 years.We discuss:• Reconciling feminism and submission• Daily rituals of devotion and service• Erotic transformation through power exchange• Star Wars roleplay and kink identity• Concerns about the manosphere in kink spaces…and more!PLUS stay tuned for next week's episode where Master Arcane shares his side of the relationship in part 2!Research Article: Navigation of Feminist and Submissive Identity by Women in the BDSM Community: A Structured Literature ReviewDon't miss the first Psychology of Desire Case File, "The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins", released last week on Substack. It’s the perfect companion to last weeks episode — diving deeper into the neuroscience, symbolism, and origins of foot fetishism. The Case Files are a new series unpacking specific kinks and patterns of desire through research and lived experience. Link here.Emma is also offering two presale courses:Activate Your Desire and Decode My Desire exclusively for podcast listeners and Substack readers. These early-access courses explore your unique erotic psychology. Link here.The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out here. If you enjoy what you hear please follow and rate the show, and if you want to support Emma's work please consider supporting her Substack on the Psychology of Desire. Visit psychologyofdesire.com to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you!Want to sponsor The Erotic Realm? Reach a global audience exploring the psychology of desire. Inquire here.Thanks for listening!M
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#22 The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins with Feetfixations
What is it about feet?In this episode we explore the psychology, sensuality, and stigma of foot fetishes with 53-year-old fetishist and photographer Larry.We discuss: Early foot memoriesWhere he thinks his fetish comes fromThe different types of foot fetishistsThe visual appeal of solesThe neuroscience behind foot-based arousal. and more!PLUS — M announces her first Psychology of Desire Case File, "The Sole of Desire: Foot Fetish Origins", out tomorrow on Substack. It’s the perfect companion to this episode — diving deeper into the neuroscience, symbolism, and origins of foot fetishism. The Case Files are a new series unpacking specific kinks and patterns of desire through research and lived experience. Link here.M is also offering two presale courses:Activate Your Desire and Decode My Desire exclusively for podcast listeners and Substack readers. These early-access courses explore your unique erotic psychology. Link here.Research Article: Relative prevalence of different fetishes.The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out here. If you enjoy what you hear please follow and rate the show, and if you want to support M's work please consider supporting her Substack on the Psychology of Desire. Visit psychologyofdesire.com to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you!Want to sponsor The Erotic Realm? Reach a global audience exploring the psychology of desire. Inquire here.Thanks for listening!M
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#21 The Beauty in Blasphemy: Mo on Being Goth, Queer & Kinky
Mo also known online as Darkest Mercy is a 22 year old goth, queer Domme and evolving kinkster who joins The Erotic Realm to talk about desire, darkness, and the erotic power of blasphemy. We explore:What it means to be a Demoness DommeFinding erotic beauty in the macabreWhy taboo, sacrilege, and shadow work can be healingQueer kink identity, mentorship, and transformationHighlights from Mo’s kink bucket list (yes, she reads it out loud!)Research Article: A thematic analysis of a sample of partnered lesbian, gay, and bisexual people’s concepts of sexual satisfaction.The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out here. If you enjoy what you hear please follow and rate the show, and if you want to support M's work please consider supporting her Substack on the Psychology of Desire. Visit psychologyofdesire.com to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you!Thanks for listening!M
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#20 Erotic Evolution & Sacred Kink: Exploring Desire After 60 with Hawthorn
What happens when you open your marriage after 35 years and start exploring kink at 60?In this episode of The Erotic Realm, I speak with Hawthorn a 66 year old genderqueer pagan who describes themselves as a bottom leaning switch, sensual sadist, sensation slut, and erotic exhibitionist.We explore:What it means to be a switch later in lifeReichian psychology, gender evolution, and spiritual kinkDefining sexual satisfaction beyond orgasmSensation play, demisexuality, and “talking scenes”How erotic ritual and pagan practice intersectWhy being fully seen is the most underrated form of erotic nourishmentPlus, Hawthorn reads from one of their own erotic writings live on the show. Research Article: What is Sexual Satisfaction? Thematic Analysis of Lay People's DefinitionsThe Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out here. If you enjoy what you hear please follow and rate the show, and if you want to support M's work please consider supporting her Substack on the Psychology of Desire. Visit psychologyofdesire.com to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you!Thanks for listening!M
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#19 The Switch Within: Mind Games & the Psychology of Role Fluidity
What does it mean to explore both dominance and submission within one erotic psyche?In this episode, I sit down with Lou, a 38-year-old switch who describes her sexuality as fluid and fiercely psychological.We discuss:What it means to be a switch in BDSM and the freedom of role fluidityMindfucking and psychological dominance as erotic toolsThe inherited lineage of kink when your mother is also in the sceneHow switching fosters deeper erotic self-knowledgeCommon misconceptions about switches—and how Lou navigates themHer approach to reading a partner’s readiness in dominanceThe power of submission in unlocking hidden parts of selfResearch Article: Switch it up’: A Qualitative Analysis of BDSM SwitchesProudly Sponsored by HeartofLovelocke Use the code EROTIC10 for 10% off your first purchase!Projects Mentioned:1. Support The Erotic Realm Confessional here.2. Be part of The Deep Desire Project here.Exciting Announcement! The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out here. If you enjoy what you hear please follow and rate the show, and if you want to support M's work please consider supporting her Substack on the Psychology of Desire. Visit psychologyofdesire.com to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you!Thanks for listening!M
The Erotic Realm explores the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. I’m your host Emma, a Psychosexuality nerd and kinkster. Join me for in depth, one on one conversations as I explore the fascinating world of eroticism, one Erotic Realm at a time. www.psychologyofdesire.com
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