On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Record producer, songwriter, and music executive Benny Blanco joins Jay for an unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply vulnerable conversation about redefining success, overcoming crippling phobias, and why embracing failure is the ultimate secret to unlocking your true creative potential.

Benny pulls back the curtain on his chart-topping music career, sharing behind-the-scenes stories with artists like Ed Sheeran, Bruno Mars, and Britney Spears, while diving into his candid new book on mastering life’s setbacks. Together they explore how to overcome the fear of embarrassment, build emotional resilience, protect your mental health while chasing big dreams, and maintain a grounded, loving relationship under the spotlight.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:58 Looking Back at the Songs That Started It All

03:07 Repeat “I Am a Failure”

04:18 Overcoming Embarrassment and Taking Big Swings

06:28 Early Lessons in Failure

08:20 Choosing Non-Traditional Creative Paths

09:51 Mom’s Dreams Vs Choosing Your Own Path

11:11 Turning Doubt Into Motivation

12:05 Ignoring The Haters and Finding Your Spark

13:39 Turning Small Steps Into Big Momentum

14:59 The Success Stool: Balancing Life’s 3 Pillars

15:37 The Power of Small Daily Habits

17:12 Relationships Need Watering Too

18:46 Facing Failure, Fear and a Phobia of Flying

21:45 Taking Micro-Steps to Conquer Deep Fears

23:04 One Task at a Time

24:04 Bruno Mars’ Journey

27:13 Authenticity vs. Imitation in Creative Expression

28:35 Late-Night Songwriting with Ed Sheeran

33:41 Trusting That It Will Work Out

34:19 Finding Your Unique Sound Beyond Influences

36:23 Unfiltered Vulnerability & Asking for Help

39:19 Celebrating Wins vs. Constant Over-Achieving

40:06 Standing Your Ground: Britney Spears to Julia Michaels

43:57 Grammy Perspective and Redefining Success

48:53 When a Failure Turns Into Your Biggest Win (“Diamonds”)

50:58 Mental Health Breakdown Amid Peak Success

53:06 Priority Management, Boundaries, and Emotional Check-ins

55:32 The Power of Saying “No” to Protect Your Peace

57:22 Why Benny Wrote His New Book

58:53 Benny Blanco on Final Five

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Jay explores how living in a world of likes, ratings, and constant feedback can make us lose touch with our own judgment. He shares five shifts for relying less on outside approval and building more trust in yourself: from learning to read yourself instead of the room and separating belonging from approval, to questioning what you really want and building self-trust through the small promises you keep to yourself.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

0:00 Introduction

00:24 What’s Really Behind the Need for Validation

03:20 Five Shifts From External to Internal Validation

03:38 Reading The Room Vs. Reading Yourself

06:09 Evolution, Tribe Instincts, And Borrowed Opinions

08:18 Why is Rejection So Painful?

12:16 Escaping The Box

15:32 Auditing Your Desires And Expectations

18:06 Building Self-Trust Vs. Chasing Confidence

25:15 Stop Watching Your Life From the Outside
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Jay unpacks why it can be so hard to let go of the life you thought you’d have by now. He shares five ideas for letting go of where you thought you’d be and making peace with where you are, from breaking free of comparison and “should” statements to understanding why we grieve futures that never happened. Plus, a simple exercise to help you look at your life differently and recognize the opportunities that came from things not going according to plan.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

0:25 Letting Go Of Expectations

00:46 The Mental Blueprint

01:43 The Invisible Competitor

02:32 Five Ideas To Feel at Peace With Your Life

04:20 Social Comparison Theory

08:17 You’re Not “Behind”

08:46 Rehearsing For The Future You Want

11:19 The Power of Resilience

12:35 Changing Priorities Of The Future Self

13:43 Grieving The Future That Never Arrived

16:00 Rewriting Your Narrative

18:08 The “Social Clock” And Inherited Timelines

19:49 Letting Go of the Timeline You Expected

20:50 The Personal Scorecard Vs. Society’s Clock

22:20 Releasing the Need to Have It All Figured Out

23:00 Focus On Possibility: The Two-Column Exercise

26:23 Recalibrating Like A GPS

27:27 Starting Fresh And The Gift Of Rewriting
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Jay welcomes neuroscientist Andrew Huberman back for his third appearance to dive into his new book, Protocols: An Operating Manual for the Human Body. Andrew breaks down what’s really happening in your body from the moment you wake up, from morning cortisol and better sleep to the science behind that afternoon energy crash. Then the conversation goes beyond physical health, exploring prayer, surrender, and how to better manage your energy.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

01:07 The Core Philosophy: Finding Ease, Peace, and Alignment

05:21 Optimal Morning Habits: The First Hour Of The Day

08:13 The Biology Of The Cortisol Awakening Response

13:31 Restoring Circadian Balance

15:19 Navigating The “Afternoon Crash”

21:15 Simplifying Fitness: Accessible Movement

24:13 The Science of Sleep and the Power of Prayer

26:35 Leaning Into Faith: Turning Willpower Over To God

28:30 The Scientific Mystery Of Surrender

32:54 Moving Beyond Binaries: Science And Faith

40:11 Jay’s Reflections On Grace And Compassion

44:46 James Hollis’s Four Rules For A Good Life

50:28 The Science Behind Recurring Thought Patterns

55:05 The Eastern Metaphor Of The Chariot

01:01:00 Breaking Out of Your Default Morning Mindset

01:03:30 The Pillars of Wellness And Impulse Control

01:06:00 The Ethical Burden of Animal Research

01:09:37 Prefrontal Strategy: Humans vs. Dogs and Cats

01:10:47 Brain-Machine Interfaces for Paralyzed Patients

01:11:54 The Future of Non-Invasive Brain Stimulation

01:15:00 Willpower, Stress, And Directing Energy

01:16:37 The 27 Club Vs. Blue Zone Longevity

01:17:25 The Drive to Stand Out and Succeed

01:19:18 Nolan Williams And High-Output Healers

01:20:44 Rick Rubin’s Riddles On Balancing Energy

01:24:34 The Flow Of Energy Exchange

01:27:24 Hard-Earned Positivity

01:29:27 The Injured Bird

01:31:38 Achieving Scientific Consensus Over Time

01:34:09 Andrew Huberman On Final Five

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Jay marks his birthday by reflecting on five lessons an unpredictable year taught him. From making career choices based on the skills you want to build, to trusting yourself through discomfort and protecting the friendships that remind you who you are beyond your work, Jay shares the principles that kept him grounded through change. He closes with a reminder that we often underestimate just how much we’re still capable of growing and becoming.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:24 Reflecting on His Biggest Year Yet

01:26 The Power of a Birthday Reset

03:09 Lesson 1: The Career Skills Worth Building Daily

10:28 Lesson 2: Experience Over Overthinking

15:54 Lesson 3: Learning to Trust Your Own Decisions

21:42 Lesson 4: You Can’t Give Everything 100%

27:45 Lesson 5: Prioritizing Authenticity in Friendships

32:05 Reframing Wisdom & Getting Older

32:37 The “End of History” Illusion

34:54 An Invitation for Self-Reflection
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