The Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast

In this episode of the Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast, hosts Michael Preston, Michael Barnett, and Dr. Sylvina Irwin delve into the intricacies of transitioning from stage one to stage two of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). They discuss the importance of understanding the different goals of each stage, the role of the therapist, and the significance of heightening emotional experiences. The conversation emphasizes the need to explore attachment fears and working models, highlighting how partners can provide support during this process. The hosts share insights on how to elicit deep emotional experiences and the healing power of vulnerability in relationships, ultimately aiming to create lasting change through secure attachments.

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites
www.michaelbarnettlpc.com
www.drsilvinairwin.com
www.eftcla.org
To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.
www.michaelprestonlpc.com
For more info on Michael's Tango Course visit
www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango
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In this episode, EFT trainers and supervisors delve into critical aspects of practicing EFT, from handling client risks during stages two and three to maintaining self-care as a therapist. Discover practical strategies, the importance of supervision, and how to keep couples engaged and resilient post-therapy.

Key Topics
Navigating client backslides and reactivity in stage two — importance of stability and understanding intervention limits.
The role of supervision in deepening EFT skills and supporting complex cases.
Strategies for ensuring long-term change: protective routines, meaningful life rituals, and ongoing reflection.
Self-care essentials for EFT therapists: balancing work demands with personal resilience, creative outlets, and community support.
Benefits and logistics of live sessions: how they provide insight, reinforce learning, and empower clients.
Handling high-escalation moments: engaging couples in intense emotional episodes safely and effectively.
Maintaining client gains after treatment: consolidating skills and life integration practices.
The significance of therapists’ ongoing growth and the value of peer support and supervision.

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites

www.michaelbarnettlpc.com
www.drsilvinairwin.com
www.eftcla.org

To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.

www.michaelprestonlpc.com

To join the Waitlist for the Michael's Tango Deliberate Practice Group visit
www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tangowaitlist

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In this episode, Michael Preston, Dr. Silvina Irwin, and Michael Barnett tackle questions the came up at a recent Externship in Los Angeles. Whether you're grappling with attachment styles, client setbacks, or pivotal relational moments, this episode offers nuanced insights to deepen your understanding and clinical skills.

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites

www.michaelbarnettlpc.com
www.drsilvinairwin.com
www.eftcla.org

To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.

www.michaelprestonlpc.com

For more info on Michael's Tango Course visit
www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango

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In this episode, we explore the intricacies of 'move four' and its implications, delving into the strategic aims and potential outcomes. The conversation highlights the importance of creating safe spaces and the dynamics of partnership exposure, offering insights into the dance of professional relationships.

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites
www.michaelbarnettlpc.com
www.drsilvinairwin.com
www.eftcla.org
To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.www.michaelprestonlpc.com
For more info on Michael's Tango Course visit www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango

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In this episode, we explore the intricacies of Tango Move 3 in Stage One, addressing audience questions and delving into the therapist's self-awareness. We discuss the challenges of enactments, the importance of understanding blocks, and the opportunities for growth in therapeutic settings.
Takeaways:
Understanding Tango Stage One is crucial for therapists.
Audience questions provide valuable insights into common challenges.
Therapist self-awareness is key to effective therapy.
Enactments can sometimes land flat, requiring reflection.
Blocks in therapy can be opportunities for growth.
New therapists should embrace learning from mistakes.
Therapeutic growth often comes from unexpected moments.
Packaging enactments is an important skill for therapists.
Coherent understanding aids in effective therapy.
Sideways moments can lead to profound growth.
To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites
www.michaelbarnettlpc.com
www.drsilvinairwin.com
www.eftcla.org
To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.
www.michaelprestonlpc.com
For more info on Michael's Tango Course visitwww.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango

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