How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

Want approach anxiety GONE?

Want the fear of rejection GONE?

This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless.

This week, one of my Wing Girls, Traci Bermingham, is here to talk about the two powerful mindset tools that help you stop spiraling in your head every time you approach a woman.

Because most men are running on old mental programming that keeps them anxious, hesitant, and stuck in fear.

And until you change that internal software, nothing changes externally.

In this episode, Traci breaks down how to identify your triggering points, stop sabotaging yourself, and finally create new patterns that help you feel calm, grounded, and confident around women.

So instead of getting trapped in your head…

You can actually connect with her.

>>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide

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A lot of men can get the first date…

But then they have absolutely no idea what to do next.

This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless.

Because what happens after the first date is usually where men either build attraction… or completely lose it.

In this episode, I sit down with Jim Wolf, author of The Attract Her and Keep Her System, to talk about how men can better understand women and recognize when a woman is actually interested in them.

We break down what women are looking for after the first date, the mistakes men make that push women away, and how to build momentum instead of losing it.

If you have ever wondered why things seem great on the first date… and then suddenly fade out after…

This episode is for you.

>>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide

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Some men resist leveling up their style.

But here is the truth.

You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up.

This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip.

Because style is not about being flashy or fake.

It is about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and makes women take notice.

In this episode, I bring on my Wing Girl stylist Carol to break this down for you.

We talk about why your clothing matters more than you think and how the right style choices can completely change how women respond to you.

And more importantly, we get into exactly what to wear so you can look and feel your best.

If you have ever wondered whether style really makes a difference…

This episode will answer that for you.

>>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide

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Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine.

This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear.

Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done.

It is something you have to carry through your life and your relationships.

In this conversation, Shawn breaks down how to build that masculine foundation and how to keep it consistent so women feel it when they are around you.

>>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide

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What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention?

Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest.

Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why.

The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it.

In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account.

If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes

IN THIS EPISODE:

✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to

✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women

✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss

✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection

✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think

✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more

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